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    Time Out Chicago / Issue 160 : Mar 20–26, 2008

    Network it, girl

    These woman-only social groups will take you to the top.

    By Erin Ensign
    Illustration by S.B. Whitehead

    Girl, you’re going places. But, let us guess—you’re no celebrity quite yet. On your way up, you might want to start networking. Find the celeb you most identify with—the star that will become your hobnobbing BFF once you’ve hit it big—and we’ll point you to the right group.

    You’re fierce like Tyra Banks
    AlphaWomen.com
    Dying to reveal that you prefer your secret lover’s average-size “package” to your husband’s hulking one? Want to rant about younger women dating older men for money? That’s exactly why 35-year-old Freda Mooncotch created Alpha Women, a talk show–like, online forum where ladies get to decide what’s worth talking about. “Alpha Women is the coffee shop of the Internet,” says Mooncotch. “It’s Sex and the City online—anything goes.” Since launching in January, a few dozen women–with new members joining daily—have written regular posts on topics ranging from how to fend off a rapist (“break his dick!”) to anonymous confessions (“My boyfriend told me I have a big vajay-jay. We are no longer together.”). The site also hosts local events, like a cocktail cruise in June. Mooncotch sums it up: “We’re better than a pint of ice cream and we’re better than a bar.”

    You’re angelic, like Oprah Winfrey
    suwn.org
    Step Up Women’s Network is a nationwide nonprofit that helps strengthen community resources for women and girls. Translation: You can help at-risk girls and make career-boosting contacts in return. At a typical volunteer event, you may introduce high-schoolers to new career opportunities. One program spotlights photojournalism and pairs girls with mentors in that field. Altruism has its benefits—panel discussions for network members feature nationally known female CEOs, and intimate power breakfasts include chat time with top Chicago businesswomen. Gina Marotta, managing director for Step Up, says they make it comfortable for first-timers to come solo. “Everyone is like-minded and really easy to talk with,” she says. Visit the website’s Chicago calendar for upcoming info sessions.

    You want your voice to be heard, like Rosie O’Donnell
    chicagonow.org
    We may elect our first female or African-American President this year, but we’re still a long way from equality for all—especially when it comes to gay rights. Want to add some muscle to the fight? Chicago NOW (the local chapter for the National Organization for Women) has an issue team dedicated specifically to lesbian rights. Shayne Bell, secretary of Chicago NOW, led this team in 2007. “It’s an action-based organization,” Bell says, “and I was attracted to the aspect of actually doing things.” They earned one victory in 2006 when Chicago NOW volunteers helped defeat a move to add an anti gay-marriage referendum to Illinois’ November 7 state ballot. Today, they’re working to legalize same-sex civil unions. The Lesbian Rights group meets at 7pm the last Wednesday of every month at Kopi Cafe (5317 N Clark St).

    You’re jump-the-couch in love, like Katie Holmes
    marriedwomen.meetup.com/186
    Do your single girlfriends mime barfing when you share tales of wedded bliss? Join the Chicagoland Nesties, a Meetup.com group of newly married women who are “in love and lovin’ it!” Thirty-one-year-old Joelen Tan started the group last February to expand her social network. “The single friends we all have don’t necessarily understand the dynamics of married life,” Tan explains. Today, the group is 175 members strong (most members are recent transplants to Chicago). After introductions, chit-chat usually centers on weddings, honeymoons and daily life with hubby. Happy hours and weekday lunches are popular events, as is “Read, Watch & Eat,” where the group selects a book to read in advance, then gathers to watch the movie version. March 30 features Like Water for Chocolate.

    You’re all business, like Martha Stewart
    fortefoundation.org
    You’ve vowed to earn six figures by the time you’re 27 (and seven by the time you’re 35). So what’s your plan? Get advice through Forté Foundation-, a national organization dedicated to directing talented women to leadership roles in business. “It helps women at the start of their careers get where they want to be,” says Chicago chapter leader Neha Shah. Popular events include Speed Speakers, in which women-at-the-top share their paths to success. Events are free and usually attract up to 40 participants, most of them under the age of 30. Forté Foundation also offers scholarships, mentors and tips on maintaining a work/life balance. For information on membership and upcoming events, visit the website’s Get Involved section.



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    • 5190 Freda Mooncotch Mon, Apr 07, at 11:12am
      THANKS for the great write-up about AlphaWomen.com! I hope that many women will drop in and join our community of women. We love to hear what you have to say!

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    • 4672 Lisa Mon, Mar 24, at 08:39am  
      I don't think many women realize how wonderful, educational, and mentally stimulating networking with other women can be. It helps build new friendships, work contacts, and a great camaraderie. I belong to the Chicago Nesties group and I think it is so successful because of the group of women who belong and it's founder, Joelen.

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