"Vauxhall is a great place to live and to go out in . There is a lot of variety out there and a lot of opportunities to socialise and meet great looking men. It just needs a bit more of a community infrastructure and somewhere to have a meal or a coffee. Bar code feels more like somewhere I'd want to meet a friend after work and chat. The RVT has got a range of interesting and experimental different nights during the week. Horse meet is eclectic and great. You don't need to be georgous but you do need to be comfortable around drugs, alcohol and sex. Not everything needs to be glamourous and stylish, not for me anyway. Sometimes rough around the edges can feel pretty good."