"Hi, I'm looking for somewhere to take my girlfriend, who has a strong exhibitionist streak, where basically anything goes - has to be somewhere lively where there's dancing and partying - not like the few swingers places we've been to where it's generally middle aged people sitting around nattering over a cuppa and a fisting. We don't mind sleazy or classy , both can be fun - when I was younger in Ipswich there used to be a really lively pub / club place where girls from the audience could get up on stage and poledance/strip - it was mainly full of younger people and the only place I've seen like it - is there anything like this in the capital these days? I don't think "Killing Kittens" would be her thing, as with her it's more about the exhibitionism than really wanting to swing.
I'm pretty normal looking, not ugly, and in good shape but she is stunning so shouldn't have a problem with somewhere that discriminates on looks.
Thanks for any ideas."