Brace yourself for reactions
A topless toddler’s not likely to incite much debate, but lose the bottom and head-shaking may be the least of the responses you get, especially if the little one isn’t potty-trained. “I’m all for freedom of expression, but there is a time and place for nudity, and a big public playground is not the place,” says Joanna Smith, a Park Slope mom of two. “When I see kids without diapers in the sprinklers, I mention to their caregivers that it can spread disease.” Even if other people’s opinions don’t bother you much (“I say, if you get shook, just don’t look,” offers Lulu Cohen, mother of a four-year-old in Bayside, Queens), you may not want any negative reactions aired within earshot of your child. According to Lisa Spiegel, cofounder of Soho Parenting Center, toddlers and even infants can register other people’s disapproval. Advises Levkoff: “Just be prepared to tell your child, not everyone is comfortable with nudity, but there is nothing wrong with it. Parents are definitely better off showing children that it is important to be who you are and not worry about other people’s judgments.”

Spiegel agrees that “teaching children to stick to their beliefs and to follow their hearts is great,” but says that lesson “comes much later. First, we have to teach regard for community.” Her vote: Keep the bottom covered in public.