Sparkles Birthday Bash And Celebration For Abstinence Vow

I am having one last night of fun before I start my spiritual journey. I would prefer that everyone wear the color black... representative of the darkness that I'm leaving behind... if not.... any color EXCEPT white is fine!! I love all of you!! I want everyone to be there to support me!! God knows I love to party, so a year of abstinence will be very hard for me, and I need all of you!!