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Let us sex-plain

Your personal wingwoman, Jillian Anthony, answers all your questions about dating and doing it in New York

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We get it—being single in the city is tough, and the ways New Yorkers are getting it on these days can be surprising. But whatever your dating conundrum might be—from finding the best hook-up bars to trying out the best new dating sites and apps—our sex columnist is here to help. Read all of her responses below and submit your own sex or dating horror story.

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Should I make a move on my doctor?
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Should I make a move on my doctor?

My f*ck buddy wants me to say I love him during sex
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My f*ck buddy wants me to say I love him during sex

It bothers me that my gay partner used to sleep with women
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It bothers me that my gay partner used to sleep with women

My partner always wants to have sex at 5am
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My partner always wants to have sex at 5am

I’m feeling shy about sex in my first lesbian relationship
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I’m feeling shy about sex in my first lesbian relationship

Why is the guy I’m seeing still uploading new pics to Tinder?
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Why is the guy I’m seeing still uploading new pics to Tinder?

What is my ex trying to say by liking all of my posts?
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What is my ex trying to say by liking all of my posts?

Is it normal to bring other people to a date?
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Is it normal to bring other people to a date?

My date got herself off without me
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My date got herself off without me

How often should I get tested for STDs?
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How often should I get tested for STDs?

I fantasize about my girlfriend’s sister
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I fantasize about my girlfriend’s sister

How long do I wait to tell my new partner about my awful breakup?
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How long do I wait to tell my new partner about my awful breakup?

I want to date my friend’s sister
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I want to date my friend’s sister

I’m dating two men on two continents
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I’m dating two men on two continents

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