Take This Waltz (15)

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Take This Waltz

Michelle Williams and Seth Rogen in Take This Waltz Photograph: Courtesy of Magnolia Pictures

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<strong>Rating: </strong>4/5

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<strong>Rating: </strong>2/5
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Time Out says

Thu Jun 28 2012

Albert Camus had a line about love. He said that we lie to ourselves twice about those we love: the first time to their advantage; the second time to their disadvantage. In this impressive relationship drama from Canadian actress-turned-director Sarah Polley, Michelle Williams is telling both lies at once. She is Margot, a struggling 28-year-old Toronto writer who is falling out of love with her husband Lou (Seth Rogen). He’s the kindest, gentlest man she’s ever met – perfect husband material five years ago. Now, nice is suffocating. When she meets artist Daniel (Luke Kirby), he is everything Lou isn’t. Margot convinces herself that Daniel could be The One.

Polley is clearly fascinated by the way people behave in long-term relationships. In her debut, ‘Away From Her’ (directed when she was just 28), she looked at the effects of Alzheimer’s on a long-married couple. In ‘Take This Waltz’ Margot and Lou are the kind of hand-holding, cute couple that friends and family assume are for keeps. He writes chicken cookbooks (a bit of a heavy-handed metaphor this: chicken being the blandest of meats). They’ve slipped into the tics and habits of cosy relationships: babytalking and playfighting (stuff that would be excruciating if anyone else overheard).

The acting is terrific. Rogen brings a breakable sweetness to Lou that he’s never shown before. Sarah Silverman is perfect as his brittle, recovering alcoholic sister – she’s the only one who spots the storm coming in Lou’s marriage. As for Williams, I could watch her for hours. There’s an extraordinary scene where she takes Daniel on her favourite fairground ride and loses herself completely to its thrills and spills. This, you sense, is how she wants love to feel. But that intensity can’t last. It’s a subtle, complex portrait of arrested development: there’s something unfinished about Margot. She’s a pretty girl who never grew up.

‘Take This Waltz’ is not quite the knockout that fans of ‘Away From Her’ might hope for; there’s a few too many flounces and false notes. The scene in which Margot and Daniel meet is fussy and implausible. Polley obviously thinks we see too much lady-flesh on screen for titillation (she’s right). So she inserts a clumsy nude scene in a gym changing room – where women of all shapes and sizes take showers.

Still, this is a hard-headed, generous film about love. Not that it’s got any definite answers. Should Margot stay with Lou? Will she be happier with Daniel? Or, to quote a writer more cynical than Camus, is love ‘a temporary insanity curable by marriage’?

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Release details

Rated:

15

UK release:

Fri Aug 17 2012

Duration:

116 mins

Cast and crew

Cast:

Seth Rogen, Michelle Williams, Luke Kirby, Sarah Silverman

Director:

Sarah Polley

Screenwriter:

Sarah Polley

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Rated as: 2/5 (13 ratings)
  • I think most people seemed to get the wrong end of the stick about the "endearing quirkiness" interaction between Rogen and Williams. These are meant to be uncomfortable and forced to show how the characters are acting and hiding in their relationship. Sure, there are a few badly considered scenes, but the acting is so strong from both leads and the 'grass is greener' syndrome message is original and particularly relevant in societies with such high divorce rates as ours.

    Cassius Fri Oct 12 2012
    Rated as: 4/5
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  • This is really a brilliant film but obviously not for everyone judging from the comments posted. Yes it's uncomfortable to watch in places but that's part of it's charm. Masterfully constructed, brilliantly acted and beautifully shot. Not for the emotionally unintelligent or those looking for bog standard light entertainment. It's not pretensions, it's just clever. Refreshing

    Liz Mon Sep 24 2012
    Rated as: 4/5
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  • Fans of Seth Rogen's 'bad taste' period are likely to be disappointed by his doing proper acting in this, I wonder if this may account to some extent for the disappointed reviewers here. I thought this film was complete magic, incredible performances from everyone, utterly gripping, and really real. Of course it is not James Bond in plot or action but what would you expect..... And if you have ever, in a long term relationship, wondered about what it would feel like to trade in for shiny and new, this is food for thought indeed.

    Ms Fusspot Thu Sep 6 2012
    Rated as: 5/5
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  • I saw this film for free and wanted my money back. The initial set up is cringeworthy, poorly constructed and embarrassing. First film I have walked out of in many years.

    Matteo Wed Aug 29 2012
    Rated as: 1/5
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  • Painful. In the words of Jesse from The Fast Show, "a load of old b0110cks".

    MikeT Sun Aug 26 2012
    Rated as: 1/5
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  • Is this film about chicken cooking compulsive obsessive disorder? Or the difficulties of marriage between autistic patients? I did not get it and walked out before the worst happened. I miss my 11.4 quid though.

    Francesca Wed Aug 22 2012
    Rated as: 1/5
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  • Two brilliant scenes: swimming pool and fairground ride. And that's pretty much it. The rest of it is fairly depressing, with Seth Rogen's being the only sympathetic character in the whole thing. Sarah Silverman's character was really annoying, and I'm starting to get sick of the 'weird things that couples do' as a shorthand for a long-standing relationship. Seemed to work really well in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, but I've not really seen anyone use it successfully since. Agree that the threesomes were utterly incongruous, but the worst thing about this is the scene where Luke Kirby character is telling Michelle Williams' character what he was 'doing to her' - any guy who uses the word 'enter' like that just sounds like a creepy perv... yuck! Made me slightly sick.

    yuck! Wed Aug 22 2012
    Rated as: 2/5
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  • slow pretentious crap

    miles Mon Aug 20 2012
    Rated as: 1/5
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  • Worth missing! Lots of cringe making scenes. Both relationships were completely unbelievable. Williams's character seemed to be a case of arrested development, circa 8 years old, and we just wanted to slap her much of the time.

    Annanda Mon Aug 20 2012
    Rated as: 1/5
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  • Well worth waiting for the final third of this film. A surprisingly honest portrayal of relationships. Some of it is absurd and silly and some of the nudity is chucked in for no real reason. The obnoxious Sarah Silverman makes an appearance as ... herself. On a par with some of the work of Woody Allen.

    ARCHGATE Mon Aug 20 2012
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