In the tradition of our Mother's Day playlist, TONY's Music team rounds up our ten favorite dadcentric cuts, from Jay-Z to John Lennon, plus an assortment of bonus tracks.
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1. "Glory," Jay-Z
In which American Gangster Jay-Z officially becomes American Dad. Shawn Carter released this heartfelt track two days after the birth of his daughter with Beyoncé, Blue Ivy, last September. Lyrically, it is as open, vulnerable and loving a tribute to a new baby as you could hope to hear, with Carter reflecting on the pain of “false alarms and false starts,” and then finding salvation of sorts: “The most amazing feeling I feel / Words can't describe what I'm feeling for real / Maybe I paint the sky blue / My greatest creation was you. You. Glory." From street hustler to urban hero to President-endorsed hit maker—to daddy. Glory, indeed.
2. "Father and Son," Cat Stevens
Let's face it—most heated exchanges between fathers and their coming-of-age sons aren't as poetic as this 1970 Cat Stevens tearjerker. (Instead, debates usually end in doors slamming or "you don't get me" shouts.) This somber folk favorite is an idealized version of the struggle every father faces when his li'l bird wants to leave the nest. Stevens sings, "I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy." Sounds familiar, eh? We've all heard our dads say these words and then quickly rolled our eyes, but this Father's Day, try your best to soak them in. Parents know a thing or two from experience, we promise.
3. "Papa Don't Preach," Madonna
The grittier flip side to "Girls Just Want to Have Fun," Madonna's fourth No. 1 smash turned the most sobering of daddy-daughter chats into unlikely dance-floor fodder. Though our narrator insists that she's "made up her mind" re an unexpected pregnancy, you can tell she's desperate for her father's approval. We never hear from Papa directly, but the song provides enough background on the father-to-be—"The one you warned me all about / The one you said I could do without"—for us to understand his timeless parental dilemma: To preach or not to preach? It's a testament to the song's power that either one makes perfect sense.
4. "Happy Birthday," Clem Snide
When Clem Snide singer Eef Barzelay fell in love, got married and had twins, the band made its sweetest album, Soft Spot (2003). And on “Happy Birthday,” he offers a catalog of wishes for his sons: “I hope that your friends are true and funny, and your girlfriends are sweet and wear tight pants / And after your heart gets gently broken, I hope that you get a second chance.” Aw dad, you’re embarrassing us now.
5. "Beautiful Boy," John Lennon
Not a good baby-daddy the first time around, John Lennon jumped on the bandwagon the second time with the birth of his son Sean. Giving new meaning to the phrase "second chances," Lennon left his wild, drug-doing, rock & roll gig with the Beatles to become a full-time stay-at-home dad. Coming out of musical retirement in the early ’80s, Lennon wrote this tribute to his beautiful boy. "Close your eyes / Have no fear," he sang, getting it right on his second try.
6. "Dance with my Father," Luther Vandross
Yes, it’s been routinely trotted out on American Idol, but the original version of this song by soul titan Luther Vandross is still potent enough to make a grown man weep. Vandross wrote it for his own father, who died when the singer was seven years old—big enough to remember his dad dancing with him and his mom. What’s so poignant is that Vandross himself was hospitalized after a stroke just before its release. He was unable to collect the Grammy Award for Best Song in 2004 (cowriter Richard Marx accepted it) and sent a videotaped message saying, “When I say goodbye, it's never for long because I believe in the power of love.” Vandross died from a heart attack the following year. We recommend watching this video with a box of tissues handy.
7. "Song for My Father," Horace Silver
We all wish for a dad as dapper as John Tavares Silva, father of the pianist Horace Silver, who dedicated the title track of a classic 1965 Blue Note effort to Dad and even adorned the cover with a portrait of him chilling by a stream, cigar in mouth. The song's funky bossa nova feel—including a two-note vamp later poached by Steely Day for "Rikki Don't Lose That Number"—evokes Silva's Cape Verdean roots, while providing a cushy platform for his son and tenor great Joe Henderson to show off their soul-steeped hardbop mastery. No wonder Silva looked so content.
8. "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun," Cyndi Lauper
All fathers wish their daughters would remain daddy's little girl forever, but upon the 1983 release of this girl-power declaration, Lauper made it clear that no man could deny his female offspring some good ol'-fashioned fun. In the accompanying video, the funky feminist, clad in a pink sparkly number complemented by an ’80s coif, belts, "The phone rings in the middle of the night / My father yells what you gonna do with your life / Oh daddy dear, you know you're still number one." We know you can finish it.…
9. "Papa Was a Rolling Stone," The Temptations
While the subject matter is no easy listening—Momma ducks and dodges her children's nagging questions about their drunken, stealin' and cheatin' late father—this song became the last of these Motown icons' four chart-topping hits on the Billboard Hot 100. Momma attempts to whitewash Papa's true colors in one of the most famous soul choruses ever—"Papa was a rolling stone, (my son) / Where ever he laid his hat was his home." While rumor has it that Temptation Dennis Edwards's father did coincidentally die on the third of September (not true, it was October), the singer did have to rerecord his parts many times in order to achieve that grizzly vocal grumble that makes this dark daddy anthem a Motown classic.
10. "Big Poppa," Notorious B.I.G.
In his first Top Ten single, the late Christopher Wallace let on that he "[saw] some ladies tonight that should be havin' my baby." But despite Biggie's then-new marriage to Faith Evans, the 1994 track made it clear that fatherhood was the last thing on his mind when he suggested that his conquests call him Big Poppa. Over a consummately chill light-funk groove, courtesy of the Isley Brothers, the MC lays out his surefire in-club seduction plan, a prelude to an evening of good food ("a T-bone steak, cheese eggs and Welch's grape") and even better lovin': "Forget the telly / We just go to the crib / And watch a movie in the Jacuzzi / Smoke L's while you do me."