This Londoner was the first non-binary person on British TV
âI didnât have the easiest upbringing. As an effeminate, non-binary, mixed-race teen growing up in a council house in Grimsby in 1959, I was subjected to racist and homophobic insults. I longed to escape.
My family tried to knock the âqueerâ out of me. When I was 14, my mum split my head open into three pieces, and I was taken into a care home. I can still recall how isolating it was â like having the wind blow a hole through your stomach.
Just before I turned 18, I moved to a bedsit in Didsbury, Manchester. There were still a few Working Menâs Clubs left where I could work as a tribute act. I soon became known as the Shirley Bassey of the North! I even met Mark E Smith of The Fall â I supported them at shows and appeared in music videos.
I always dreamt of moving to the Big Smoke, and in 1980, I moved to a squat in Clapton Pond. Unfortunately, a lot of the National Front called that area home as well. I would often dress androgynously, with pink sequinned tops, and acid green lycra trousers. Unsurprisingly, the skinheads would scream atrocities.
One night, they chased us out of our squat, kicking doors down and throwing Molotov cocktails. We grabbed everything we could, and ran to Notting Hill as the riots unfolded.
âThere was no one like me at the time. They didnât have brown camp people on the tellyâ
I stayed there for four and a half years. One of my neighbours was Keith Allen, and he invited me to be part of Channel 4âs first youth programme. Later, I starred on âThe Com