Adult nights out in London

London's sexiest soirées come in all shapes and sizes, from full-on fetish experiences to the lightest touch of decadent fantasy. Book a sexy night at W Hotel Leicester Square or try exclusive erotic party Killing Kittens

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    • FClub

      Modern Londoners wanting to get a taste of Cynthia Payne-partying may want to try The F Club, an absolutely 100 per cent legal (we can’t stress that enough) calendar of private parties where ‘attractive, liberated adults can enjoy each others’ company, and, if desired, explore and enjoy sensual and sexual experiences’. Feel free to dress as a judge… with suspenders, obviously. Membership £5 per month or £50 per year for frequent F-ers. Read more

  • Ess and Emm

    Address on booking (07771 898776/ www.essandemm.com).

    This isn’t in London, but for capital-dwellers seeking a genuinely dirty weekend away it’s not to be missed. Located in sleepy Leamington Spa, a quick train trip from Euston, this is touted as the UK’s finest purpose-built bed, breakfast and dungeon facility. There are two suites for overnighters, featuring rotating wheels, bondage benches, wet rooms, strap cages, a St Andrew’s Cross (an X-shaped restraint structure) and various other S&M and fetish devices. It certainly beats a Corby trouser press. Read more

  • Hoist

    Arches 47B & 47C South Lambeth Rd, London, SW8 1RH

    Touted somewhat enigmatically to those not involved in the scene as ‘Europe’s premier dress-code bar’, The Hoist is a London bolthole for gay men into leather, uniforms, rubber, industrial and the skinhead look. You also have to wear boots. Read more

  • Shoreditch Chariots

    Fairchild Street, London, EC2A 3NS

    There are incarnations of this famous gay sauna chain in Waterloo, Limehouse, Streatham and Vauxhall, but the biggest and busiest remains the branch in Shoreditch. Open from noon to 9am, it boasts the expected indoor pool, steam room and saunas – but also a twenty-man Jacuzzi, a giant 'fun shower', cinema and video rooms. And, if all that makes you peckish, a snack bar. Read more

  • Club Aquarium

    256 & 260 Old Street, London, EC1V 9DD

    Don’t expect quite the same level of nudity (or debauchery) as Chariots, but for heterosexual hedonists Club Aquarium provides an opportunity to strip down to swimsuits. The club boasts a pool and a jacuzzi, and the music policy ranges from ‘70s and ‘80s nights to super-camp, hen party favourite Adonis cabaret. Read more

  • Little Liaisons

    These intimate themed events are for sophisticated swingers ready to strip off and swap in style. Expect around 30 couples and the occasional single girl. Venues vary, but they are always reliably sumptuous (this isn’t the kind of thing that really works in a room above a pub). Read more

  • Mass Pleasures

    These friendly, sexy soirées feature an international crowd and a relaxed dress code. It’s invitation only (check the website for details), and events take place in only the most high-end venues – penthouses, country houses and stately homes. They aim to provide an environment where people can have mature conversations about their sexual fantasies that they may not be able to in their regular social groups – so be prepared to share your deepest sex secrets. Read more

  • Our Place 4 Fun

    Promising to be particularly welcoming and friendly to newcomers, the organisers of this swingers’ club also pledge that it’s not a gang-bang, and nobody is paid to be there. The purpose-built venue features a specialised grope area, glory holes, a harem bed, video screens and much more. You have to be a member to attend and certain nights are restricted to couples or single females. www.ourplace4fun.com. The secret venue is 20 mins by tube from Leicester Square, or ten mins by rail from King’s Cross. Read more

  • Club S.O.P at The Underground Club

    Club S.O.P, 37 Wharfdale Rd, London, N1 9SD

    This gay night for ‘watersports enthusiasts’ isn't aimed at fans of windsurfing or water polo. Club night SOP is definitely a place for pissing – there’s no dress code (blokes can wear anything from suits or jeans to Speedos), and beginners are welcome, just be ready to get soaked. Read more

  • W Hotel

    Wardour Street, London, W1D 6QF ((7758 1000/ www.wlondon.co.uk).

    You wouldn’t normally expect to find sexy and chic on Leicester Square, but this new hotel offers a rather different mini-bar which, in addition to the usual bottles of vodka and packets of M&Ms, contains a Tenga Egg sex toy for him and mini vibrator for her. Read more

  • XXL

    51-53 Southwark St, SE1 1TE (7403 4001/ www.xxl-london.com).

    This nightclub nestled in the arches near London Bridge is the biggest bear club in the UK. It’s also one of the friendliest specialist venues you’ll visit – with up to 2,000 large and furry gents enjoying the pounding sound-system and each other’s company. Read more

  • Last Tuesday Society

    Overseen by Viktor Wynd (of Little Shop of Horrors fame), the Last Tuesday Society runs – along with seances, lectures and literary discussions – an irregular series of debauched balls. Make sure you don your finest outfit – as their website bluntly states: ‘Please do not come if you are ugly or ill-dressed.’ Read more

  • Eagle London

    349 Kennington Lane, London, SE11 5QY

    This place has become a hub for those wishing to try a bit of leather without a strict dress code. It also hosts Sunday's much-loved Horse Meat Disco, where old bears and young fashionistas come together for an disco-centric party. Read more

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29 comments
Tina
Tina

City slickers has received some interesting reviews on here which are surprising. As always, the issue of price comes up. I think it is important to consider the following; The average cost of a day or evening pass to a spa that includes, 2 hot tubs, sauna, all year round indoor/outdoor heated swimming pool, shower facilities and towels, will cost on average anything between £20 and £50 or more, dependent on the venue. Anyone who has been here, knows it is a big venue. Secondly, there is limitless free cold soft drinks and hot drinks all night. Dependent on what you would consume in a cafe, do the maths yourselves here. Thirdly, there is a champagne reception. In fact you can pretty much drink the stuff all night or wine if you prefer. Again all INCLUSIVE of the price. Again, do your own maths if you were paying for this on a good night out? The venue itself is super clean, great facilities, and includes an adult cinema. Frequently included is food too. For example the recent event included a BBQ. Also included recently was a Reiki / Tantra demonstration and upcoming events will include burlesque shows etc.. This is ALL included in the one price and we haven't got started on the sexy fun you could be having while you are there!! So, yes, you can go to cheap sex parties...unsanitary environments, expensive bar, let any Tom, Dick or Harry in...... and you get what you pay for I am afraid! But I believe that city slickers do their utmost best to give their guests a wonderful fun filled, relaxed, safe and sexy evening... The summer months have meant that most clubs, even the most exclusive up market ones have suffered from a lower attendance than usual, due to people being away, family commitments etc.. I have see this from personal experience where beautiful mansions, usually very busy are much quieter...but this is usual and no reason to lose faith, but the Autumn promises to bring more fun once more...so let’s support these great people and keep such events going! They can't do it without us!

Jess
Jess

I think Mass Pleasures has been writing a lot of these posts. I went with my x and there was no drink, hardly any people and and the guys were too much. Not what I expected at all.

JEN & CRAIG
JEN & CRAIG

We have attended MASSPLEASURES parties and they are definately the next big thing in UK parties, always trying to outdo and improve on the last event and have hot standard of couples & upscale venues.

Keving & Shelley
Keving & Shelley

At last a top quality event that get’s it right on every level. The hottest couples, an amazing house, like the houses you see in Architectural Digest,and great music. Not the usual top 40 but real sexy European house music. It was like the great high end parties we go to in Miami. The best.. Can’t wait to go to the next one…

Michael and Lisa
Michael and Lisa

“We have traveled the world in the Lifestyle. While there are amazing parties in Europe and South America, the United States been lacking the last ten years. Mass Pleasures has entered and dominated this space. We went through the screening process and enjoy our new friends amazing blend of beautiful venues and intoxicatingly delicious people. The crowd is amazing – sexy, educated, young professionals that we click with immediately.

KATSAYSYOUCAN
KATSAYSYOUCAN

“Granted, we have not been in “the life� very long, but we’ve hit the ground running. We’ve been to somewhere in the neighborhood of 7 or 8 clubs or mansion parties since we got this ball rolling…and there is no doubt, MASS PLEASURES throws the BEST parties anywhere. We were getting used to clubs and parties where there was MAYBE two other attractive couples. At both of MASS’s parties that we’ve attended, we have been floored by the sheer volume of hotness all around us. Fun, friendly, sexy, low-pressure, all-fun. Please keep inviting us. We’ll never stop coming.� KATSAYSYOUCAN - WEST HOLLYWOOD, CA

Hollie&Michael
Hollie&Michael

“What an incredible party! Classy couples, beautiful house, music sexy to dance to yet played at the perfect volume so we can socialize (rare to find a dj that gets it and knows this balance) & each person there was excited to meet others. We can’t wait to host your next party whether here in Los Angeles, over in London, across the country in New York….or anywhere� Holli and Michael SwingShow Playboy Radio

Eve
Eve

@MB hahhaha, total fabrication, another competitor trying to pick on Mass Pleasures for dominating the exclusive erotic party scene in London, find something better to do and stop spreading your bitter and twisted views, Mass Pleasures keeps defying all its critics and hosting bigger and bigger parties each time... how can you be raided at a party once by the police if this is even true and then go back to the next party lol,...

steven
steven

Looking forward to my first City Slickers party next Thursday at ABFab. I am a single guy and have been vested before being invited really can't wait to meet new people whilst having lots of fun.

Sparina
Sparina

I'm disgracefully pleased to admit that I love City Slickers Parties. Each time I've been I've left with a big grin on my face and the following morning thought 'Wow, was that really real?' If you're looking for relaxed, chilled, stylish parties with stylish people who are actually there to play and have fun then these parties are for you. Newbies will love them too and I guarantee will be joining in the fun on the first visit.

MB
MB

We have been to Mass Pleasures twice; once we got raided by the police and asked to leave the premises and the second time we arrived at 10pm only to find that there were no more drinks to what it ought to have been an “open bar all night until it runs dry and much more!�… probably we have been unlucky… TWICE… we would not go back in a hurry and could not agree more with the words “over-sold� and “commercial parties� already used in posts here below!

Elizabeth
Elizabeth

Trying out Mass Pleasures next month, sounds like the best one for us (voyeuring, getting it on ourselves but not swinging). Will let you know!

D & B
D & B

We've been to a few clubs and several parties, but City Slickers Parties offer the best of both worlds. A large well equipped venue (they used Abfabs for this party) with enough space to cater for 100+ people combined with the intimacy and social aspects of a private house. The host goes out of his way to ensure all new guests are introduced around so there's no chance of cliques forming. The quality and attitude of the single guys present was a joy, a world away from the predatory nature of some clubs, they are a credit to themselves and to the host for his vetting procedures. We hadn't been before, it's a long way from Yorkshire but we'll sure as hell go again in a heartbeat. Thanks guys for an awesome evening XxX

H
H

Shayla, Elizabeth, MDG did you find somewhere that you enjoyed? Thanks for the info!

Simon
Simon

MDG - Club Smack sounds like what you're looking for. Only went the once, nice people. It used to have a website, but can't find that any more. Did find this post though, which gives you an email address. Also try: www.londonfetishscene.com "SMACK! operates a strict Fetish/Fantasy dress code. The club is organised and assisted by experienced fetish scene people who are discreet and approachable. Feel free to talk with or contact Miranda or Mr Angry-Pants at clubsmack1@hotmail.co.uk "

MDG
MDG

Hi, coming to London from May4-12, GF is really into being spanked, would like to find a clean, classy, club which promotes and specializes in spanking. She isn't a swinger at all, but might want the slap of another. Can anyone suggest any place? Were staying in Chelsea... TY

monica
monica

@JB, were you one of those turned down for membership or invite to a MASSPLEASURES.COM party because you were not hot enough or elite enough? I absolutely agree with the way MASSPLEASURES runs their parties by invitation only, it's not about the money but quality decent attractive people wanting to experience with their sexuality in a safe and secure environment where women are made to feel 10 times safer than in a normal club , as a single girl new this whole scene , honestly speaking I will recommend this laid back, totally non judgemental crowd to other girlies... girls have the power to go as far as the like without men pressuring them or peering at them like at kk and all these other commercial parties...

Elizabeth
Elizabeth

I have exactly the same thought and question as Shayla - please comment if you know of anywhere!

Mark Billear
Mark Billear

Found a refreshing change in an old establishment namely 'SophistiCats'. Usually these gentlemen's clubs are either super stuffy and soulless or full of vultures, but not here. Nice calm relaxed atmosphere, great company, entertaining stage with at least three dancers on at any time obviously having a good time, and it shows too. Pricey drinks but, to be expected, bite the bullet and buy a bottle. We had a laugh and other tables some with females in tow clearly did too. Recommended late bar (we left at almost sunrise) and entertainment, just off Oxford Street near Bond Street, but bring a big wallet and treat yourself

shayla
shayla

Want to take my boyfriend to a cub where we can watch and get it on with each other. Not really interested in swinging or taking all my clothes off. Guess we are just voyeurs. Any suggestions? Really would like to find a mainstream club where things are known to happen!!!

TC
TC

As some parties are not mentioned I feel I should make an addition to other alternative nights out in London. Killing Kitten das indeed the highest profile but attracts also too many sexy people who are only there out of curiosity. Fever Parties was the first and remains still today the best true sexiest soiree attracting true swingers with a touch of class. This is the real thing! City Slickers Parties is catching up very fast with its unique style aiming at giving ladies the chance to live out some fantasies and get as much attention as they want. It seems a very safe environment and the ladies are tempted rather than pressured into enjoying themselves.

TC
TC

As some parties are not mentioned I feel I should make an addition to other alternative nights out in London. Killing Kitten may be may have the highest profile but attracts also too many sexy people who are only there out of curiosity. Fever Parties was the first and remains still today the best true sexiest soiree attracting true swingers with a touch of class. City Slickers Parties is catching up very fast with its unique style aiming at giving ladies the chance to live out some fantasies and get as much attention as they want. It seems a very safe environment and the ladies are tempted rather than pressured into enjoying themselves.

K Rim
K Rim

well, Chariots in Shoreditch just burned down last Sunday morning...

Nicola Kinki
Nicola Kinki

why not just list the simple obvious places like Subversion, Club Rub, Torture Garden, and last but most certainly not least Antichrist, which .. based upon my in depth exploration of all these places .. takes the fetish biscuit ...

Simon
Simon

Good list, I'd add "Night of the Senses" too, even though it's only an annual event. Nice to see somewhere that focuses on a charity angle too.

JB
JB

Confirm on Last Tuesday....the formula doesnt deliver well on any promise. piles of stinking food (what's that about!) and public schoolboys fencing with some dreadful orchestra in background. Aphrodisiacs can be great fun (new venue however is always a risk) but its more risque than wild. F Club....hmmm. Suburban and soulless on an industrial estate. eek. but have heard that "bigger nights" are better. Mass Pleasures small....and over-sold in terms of "eliteness" Killing Kittens gets good reviews looking forward to going x Not in this list but among the best is City Slickers..... Torture Garden (although often too big to be relaxing) remains probably best of the fetish genre...although RUB and Decadence are contenders.

Tommy Jones
Tommy Jones

I need to argue with the latest comment. last tuesday society has been the worst nights I've ever been to in London, totally dreadful. I've been to Torture Garden and other "kinky" evenings, last tuesday is a total rip off, bad staff, worst sound system around, poor shows, if any, expensive. To avoid at ... any price !

Joel
Joel

I have been to numerous clubs Crimson and Festival of Sins being those most recent. I disagree with the comments above. They are fantastic nights, with great people. Normally there is an entry fee and coat check fee but what club has those for free? The nights are fun and interesting normally with a great soundsystem and fun music...go ...def go for it

Larry G
Larry G

Interesting to find out I'm not the only person to have had an unpleasant experience at Last Tuesday Society. The one I attended was probably at a different venue but many of the things mentioned in the previous review also applied. On top of that, I found a lot of the punters were far from enlightened or open minded. Because I was a scantily clad male, many people saw it fit to throw drinks at me repeatedly besides pinching me, insulting me and invading my personal space. An "adult" night? The words "stuck up", pretentious and disrespectful spring to mind to describe many of the punters' behaviour. Also, it was definitely not the best looking crowd I've seen in London... and as how people were attired... well, with a few exceptions, lack of imagination ruled. As I told the organisers at the time, it was not a on Tuesday night but it definitely was my last. Things don't seem to have improved much.