Sex & Dating

Your ultimate guide to sex and dating in New York City

Things to do

The best summer date ideas in NYC

Hit the town with your sweetie, and enjoy all that Gotham has to offer in the deliciously warm weather

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Blog

Meet the Undateables: Ben and Gray

Each week we put our matchmaking skills to the test

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Travel

The 15 most romantic hotels in America

For a night (or several) to remember, get a room at one of the most romantic hotels across the country, from NYC to Maui

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Movies

The 100 best sex scenes of all time

Cinema's most innovative, groundbreaking sex scenes

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Things to do

The most romantic spots in NYC

Beautiful New York City can take your breath away, whether you're with your squeeze or adventuring solo

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Essential dating spots

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Best date spots by neighborhood

Plan the perfect night out with our guide to NYC's coolest date spots

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Restaurants

The most romantic restaurants in NYC

Make sparks fly no matter your budget at the city's most romantic restaurants

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Bars

The most romantic bars in NYC

Take a date to one of these crazy, sexy, cool bars for a romantic night out

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The 10 best hookup bars in NYC

Hooking up is hard to do—unless you know where to go.

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100 pickup spots

Whether you want to find a date, a one night stand or something deeper, here are 100 tried-and-tested pickup spots recommended by real New Yorkers.

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More dating ideas

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Great first date ideas

Don’t overthink things for an early date: If you need a first-date idea, use our guide to find the perfect, casual spot.

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Casual date ideas

Sometimes you just don’t know if your crush is crushin’ back. Use these casual date ideas to plan an outing and find out if your romantic feelings are mutual.

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Best offbeat date ideas

If you hate the traditional trappings of dating, try one of these fun, casual date ideas.

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Best breakup spots

You’ve decided to dump your significant other in public (you bastard!). Here's where to get it over with.

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The Undateables

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Eyra and Brian

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Beth and Bill

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Scott and Randi

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David and Richard

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Get in the mood

Music

50 sexiest songs ever made

From the hottest turn-ons to the sweetest soundtracks, these are the 50 sexiest songs on the planet, according to us.

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Music

The 45 sexiest album covers of all time

Flip through the steamiest, most seductive record sleeves in music.

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Movies

The 10 best sex scenes in New York movies

Weird, wild and impossibly verbal, these are the best sex scenes in movies about New York.

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Quiz: What kind of New York lover are you?

Player or pussycat? Take our saucy quiz and discover your sex style.

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