Sex & Dating


Essential Sex & Dating spots

Best date spots by neighborhood

Plan the perfect night out with our guide to NYC's coolest date spots.

The 10 best hookup bars in NYC

Hooking up is hard to do—unless you know where to go.

100 pickup spots

Whether you want to find a date, a one night stand or something deeper, here are 100 tried-and-tested pickup spots recommended by real New Yorkers.

Cheap date ideas for fun-seeking New Yorkers

Don’t fret, penny-pincher—each of these fun cheap date ideas will cost you $30 or less.





Sex & Dating: Top stories

Where to pick up men on the subway. Really? Really!

Online dating site How About We interviewed subway matchmaker the Love Conductor and got her recommendations for sharking on the subway. Find out where to take a detour on tonight's long, lonely commute home.

The dater’s handbook

Use these tips to survive a horrific date—and to protect yourself before one even happens.

Great first-date ideas

Don’t overthink things for an early date: If you need a first-date idea, use our guide to find the perfect, casual spot.

I'm-not-sure-this-is-a-date date ideas

Sometimes you just don’t know if your crush is crushin’ back. Use these casual date ideas to find out if your romantic feelings are mutual.


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