Erotic experiences in Buenos Aires to awaken desire

In the heart of Palermo, a long table lit by dim lights invites you to join something different. La Cena Secreta is no ordinary dinner: it’s a multisensory experience that fuses art, pleasure, and fine dining into a provocative, elegant, and deeply sensual performance. Led by Leandro Travaglio (Gorriti Art Center), the idea was born during the pandemic as an at-home erotic game: sensory boxes, secret menus, candles, and interactive QR codes that seduced Buenos Aires. Today, its in-person version is more popular than ever: three and a half hours of complete surrender to play and desire.

The three-course aphrodisiac menu, designed by chef Sergio Moro, awakens the senses with signature dishes, while the dinner blends with live music, performances, dance, magic, humor, and a sexology Q&A led by a sexologist who answers with wit and zero taboos.

Things happen here that can’t be told—only experienced. La Cena Secreta is ideal for curious couples, open-minded groups, and adventurous seekers looking to break routine and activate all the senses.

Tip: Universo Secreto is the more intimate, extrasensory version for selected couples. Mesa 69 is designed so singles can join without needing a partner. Reserve here.

Where: Av. Juan Bautista Justo 1617, Gorriti Art Center.

This isn’t a “happy ending.” It’s a sensory journey into the body, desire, and presence. The sensitive tantric massage is a re-education of the senses that expands pleasure thresholds, activates the body’s bioelectricity, and proposes conscious eroticism, far from haste and expectations.

Poly, founder of Amapoly, left behind her banking career to dedicate herself to guiding people through their genuine sexuality. Today she leads individual sessions and workshops for those seeking to reconnect with their body and desire.

Each session (solo, as a couple, or duo) invites you to breathe, feel, and inhabit your body in a playful, loving way. In private workshops, Poly teaches simple yet profound practices—from relaxing massages to erotic play and intimate techniques that renew the sensual repertoire. More than a technique, it’s an invitation to embrace a free, alive, and authentic sexuality. Respect, professionalism, and sensitivity are at the core.

Tip: The sensitive tantric massage session lasts 90 minutes, with 45 minutes of actual massage. Reserve here.

Where: Villa Crespo, Buenos Aires

“We walked without looking for each other, but knowing we were walking to find each other,” wrote Julio Cortázar. Face-to-face match? BelenCita offers an in-person dating experience: no screens, no algorithms, no filters. Not about “marriage or bust,” but about real eye contact and unfiltered conversations. Think speed dating reinvented: more human, more sensitive, guided by someone who understands relationships.

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Born in Mar del Plata in 2022, Belén—who has a background in mental health and a creative, artistic lens—designed a unique method of prompts, steps, and games that foster spontaneous, emotional, and desire-driven encounters. After its success on the coast, the project landed in Buenos Aires and quickly exploded, now drawing over 120 participants per event.

Every gathering is crafted to dismantle facades, encourage play, and make way for genuine encounters. What began as intimate meetups now includes large-scale parties like Chapa Fest. Privacy is respected—no participant photos are shared publicly, and communication is personalized via WhatsApp.

Tip: They also organize camps, special dinners, singles’ trips, and more. Reserve here.

Where: Locations vary: Palermo, Caballito, San Cristóbal

In San Telmo, Sweet Club & Temptation Restó is more than a club: it’s a sophisticated, sensual experience and the benchmark of the swinger scene in Argentina and Latin America.

With a careful concept that includes dress codes, themed nights, and an atmosphere where respect and sensuality are paramount, Sweet Club has built a loyal community over years. Coordinators welcome first-timers, explain the rules, and ensure a space where freedom and respect go hand in hand.

The night begins at Temptation Restó, a three-course restaurant with aphrodisiac dishes and international cocktails, then continues upstairs at Sweet Club, where themed rooms invite you to explore and let go.

Tip: From Thursday to Sunday, there are themed nights and activities to play with curiosity and without labels.

Where: Chacabuco 162, CABA.

For the past six years, Nicolás Vidal and Lourdes Zybala—a couple and business partners—have run Savage, a boutique sex shop in Palermo Soho, open daily. With over 2,000 products, from classic toys (suction vibrators, rabbits, lubricants, lingerie) to adventurous accessories, Savage stands out for its warm, knowledgeable owners.

They also launched Choise, their own line of simple, functional, affordable toys. Visitors spend around 30 minutes in-store, often leaving with new ideas and discoveries.

Tip: The store features an arcade-style claw machine, but instead of plushies, you can win sex toys. They ship nationwide.

Where: Thames 1481.

Created by José María Muscari, SEX is more than a show—it’s a sensory experience that revolutionized Buenos Aires nightlife. Erotic, humorous, and provocative, it blends music, dance, theater, and pure energy.

The audience is diverse: couples, singles, groups, curious explorers. All surrender to an immersive journey where pleasure is lived without labels. In its new season, Romina Richi and Tucu López return with more fire and magnetism.

Tip: SEX offers exclusive upgrades: La Zona Roja and El Cuarto Oscuro, intimate spaces for just 25 spectators per show. Duration: 90 minutes.

Where: Av. Juan Bautista Justo 1617, Gorriti Art Center.

Otello redefines the classic love hotel, turning it into a playground for fantasy and desire. Its themed rooms—like The 1950s (red velvet, vintage decor, mirrors) or The Cabin (a nautical fantasy)—invite you to embody a new character for the night.

For a luxurious escape, the Appart category offers spacious, modern suites with hydromassage tubs, mirrored walls, and glass walkways.

Tip: Overnight stays end at 2 p.m. and include breakfast.

Where: Arregui 4241, Villa Devoto.

An institution of Buenos Aires’ underground erotic culture, Cine ABC has survived since the 1960s. Once a hub for alternative theater and later cult porn screenings, today it’s exclusive to the gay community.

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With red curtains straight out of a surreal Lynchian scene, the cinema is a time capsule of raw desire and trashy charm. Regulars still gather not just to watch films, but to connect, whisper, and continue a ritual that refuses to die.

Tip: Despite repeated closures, it always reopens. Open daily.

Where: Esmeralda 506.

DURX is not just a party—it’s an immersive ritual where performance, fetish, dance, and physical theater merge. An interdisciplinary art collective, DURX creates conceptual universes around the body, desire, and freedom.

Consent and respect are non-negotiable. The dress code encourages going all out—fetish, punk, camp, kitsch, or extreme elegance. Phones and cameras are restricted, especially in the sexroom.

Tip: Exact location is shared upon ticket purchase. Entry strictly between 11:59 p.m. and 3:00 a.m.

Where: Tickets via Instagram DM or Telegram

Sometimes, the most powerful stimulation comes from words. This podcast by writer Lola Rossi shares sensual stories set across Argentina, from the streets of Buenos Aires to more intimate landscapes.

Short episodes invite you to drift into fantasies, characters, and erotic scenes that awaken both mind and body. Perfect for adding intrigue to your nights—or any moment you want to make more exciting.

Tip: Full, uncut episodes—including the most explicit parts—are available online.