Single in the City: Where to find love in Cape Town this October

Whoever said there’s a cut-off age for finding true love clearly missed the memo. They say life begins at 40 (I’ll have to take their word for it), and Thursday is making a strong case for it. They are hosting a laid-back cocktail evening at Our Local, Sea Point – a night designed for those who prefer real conversations over endless swiping, and good company over guesswork.

What to expect:

• No planning, no pressure, show up and enjoy
• Great cocktails, easy conversation
• A welcoming space for men and women aged 40 and up

Event details:

• Date: 16 October
• Time: 7 pm to 10 pm (last entry at 9:15 pm)
• Venue: Our Local, Sea Point
• Age group: 40+
• Price: R200-R250. Click here to book.

Summer is calling, and Curated Connections is answering. Picture this: golden hour casting its glow over Camps Bay, the ocean breeze in the air, and the gentle hum of conversation as new connections spark. Hosted at Tiger’s Milk, Camps Bay, this event is the perfect blend of relaxed vibes and stunning scenery – a true celebration of Cape Town summer. Whether it's a meaningful chat or a playful flirt, this is a great opportunity to meet someone new.

What to expect:

• Guests will be welcomed with a complimentary glass of bubbly
• A host will lead fun and interactive ice-breaker games, typically lasting 30-45 minutes
• Once the ice is broken, guests are free to mingle, connect, and enjoy the evening at their own pace

Event details:

• Date: 23 October
• Time: 6:30 pm to 10 pm
• Venue: Tiger’s Milk, Camps Bay
• Age group: Women aged 26-40 | Men aged 28-42
• Price: R270 per person. Click here to book.

Dating in Cape Town doesn’t always mean dressing up for a formal dinner. The Mother City offers plenty of relaxed ways to meet new people, and Mojo Market’s Salsa Sundays is one of the most fun.

Whether you're flying solo or coming with friends, this free beginner-friendly salsa class is a great way to step onto the dance floor, loosen up, and maybe even meet someone new.

What to expect:

• Five bars and 35 food stalls to keep you energised
• No partner needed – come alone or bring your crew
• A beginner salsa class followed by a lively salsa party

Event details:

• Date: 19 October
• Time: 7 pm (Beginner class) | 8 pm (Salsa party)
• Venue: Mojo Market, Sea Point
• Price: Free

Moving to a new city is one thing; building connections is another. That’s where Global Connections steps in, offering a welcoming space for expats and nomads to meet, mingle, and network. While it’s not a dating event, who’s to say one thing can’t lead to another?

What to expect:

• A relaxed monthly meetup, every third Wednesday
• Icebreaker games to spark conversation
• A complimentary welcome drink on arrival

Event details:

• Date: 15 October
• Time: 5:30 pm to 8 pm
• Venue: The Grand Daddy Boutique Hotel
• Price: R80 (online) | R95 (at the door)

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What do tattoos and relationships have in common? Commitment (or at least we’d hope so). Female-owned Monarch Tattoo Co. is teaming up with Thursday for a singles-only tattoo night takeover, featuring six artists offering flash sale 5×5 tattoos, plus piercings!

What to expect:

• One night of music, cocktails, ink, and piercings
• A room full of singles (no couples allowed!)

Event details:

• Date: 23 October
• Time: 7 pm to 10 pm
• Venue: Monarch Tattoo Co., Woodstock
• Age: 18+
• Price: R160 to R250. Click here to book.

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