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Stephen, 26 | Date these singles

Interested in males


Lincoln Park


Office Manager

What makes you a good catch?
I'm a good ole fashioned Nebraska boy with Midwestern values.

What’s your idea of a perfect first date?
A nice meal, witty banter, and a bottle of wine...the laughter will carry the night ending in a sweet good night kiss.  (Once I round the corner from dropping him off I proceed to skip the rest of the way home)

Favorite hangout
The library...who are we kidding? (Dearest editor, as you are a student of journalist, it may not be a far reach to think that you may enjoy frequenting the library.  If this is so, please do not take offense to the previous statement.  I hear there are some really nice people there.)  I would have to say I'm typically at an establishment where I can do a little “shake-shake” (dancing)

Secret talent
My ability to laugh at the most inappropriate times.  Usually because I am running a totally unrelated topic or idea through my mind that everyone around me is completely oblivious to.

Describe your ideal match
I'm looking for someone that is fun, outgoing, spontaneous, yet grounded and genuine.  A man that I could take home to the parents and eventually start my own family with.  A person that enjoys life, is passionate about what he does, and wants to go through the journey of life with someone at his side.

Name one thing a date could do that would make you go crazy (in a good way).
I love it when you are in the middle of a really good conversation and your date lightly touches you to bring you even further into the conversation.  A subtle brushing of the hands, a quick squeeze of the arm...!!!

Name one thing a date could do that would make you go crazy (in a bad way).
I hate it when your date always has a bigger, better story to tell, or always has to one up you.  "You're doing this on the first date...really?  What is he going to be like once he isn't on his best behavior and trying to impress you???"  Done and done!

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