Valentine's Day ideas: Dates, gifts, restaurants and more

Is Cupid not returning your calls? We can help with Valentine's Day ideas for couples and singles, including romantic restaurants, gifts and saucy events.

Valentine's Day: Love it or hate it, you can't avoid it. And really, do you want to avoid it? For all the crass commercialization and the rigmarole of finding a restaurant reservation, why not either do something nice for your significant other and spend time together, or take advantage of the single population working themselves into a frenzy of desperation? (Only joking.) To help you have an enjoyable time on and around February 14, we've come up with Valentine's Day ideas that should help you plan the Goldilocks of dates: one that's not too cheap, not too expensive, not too over the top and not too uncaring—it'll be just right. And if you can't bear to spend it alone, try asking out one of the Time Out singles and find a date for Valentine's Day.

Things to do for Valentine's Day in New York

Filthy Gorgeous Burlesque Valentine's Spectacular

  • Price band: 2/4
  • Critics choice
  1. Highline Ballroom 431 W 16th St, between Ninth and Tenth Aves
  2. Thu Feb 14
Buy tickets
  1. Pyramid Club 101 Ave A, between 6th and 7th Sts
  2. Thu Feb 14
More info
  1. Grand Central Terminal, Vanderbilt Hall 42nd St, between Vanderbilt and Lexington Aves
  2. Thu Feb 14
More info

Love Bites—The Power-Ballads Sing-Along

  • Price band: 1/4
  • Critics choice
  1. Union Hall 702 Union St, between Fifth and Sixth Aves
  2. Thu Feb 14
More info
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Valentine’s Day dinner in New York: Romantic restaurants offering à la carte menus

Paulie Gee's

  • Price band: 1/4
  • Critics choice
  1. 60 Greenpoint Ave, (between Franklin and West Sts)
More info

Desnuda

  • Rated as: 4/5
  • Price band: 2/4
  • Critics choice
  1. 122 E 7th St, (between First Ave and Ave A)
More info

Perla

  • Rated as: 4/5
  • Price band: 2/4
  • Critics choice
  1. 24 Minetta Ln, (between Sixth Ave and MacDougal St), 10012
More info

Osteria Morini

  • Price band: 2/4
  • Critics choice
  1. 218 Lafayette St, (between Broome and Spring Sts)
Book online
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Valentine's Day date ideas in New York

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Romantic NYC hotels for Valentine's Day

Gramercy Park Hotel

  • Rated as: 4/5
  • Price band: 4/4
  1. 2 Lexington Ave, (at 21st St), 10010
More info

The Bowery Hotel

  • Rated as: 4/5
  • Price band: 4/4
  1. 335 Bowery, (at 3rd St), 10003
More info

Library Hotel

  • Rated as: 3/5
  • Price band: 3/4
  1. 299 Madison Ave, (at 41st St), 10017
More info

The London NYC

  • Rated as: 4/5
  • Price band: 3/4
  1. 151 W 54th St, (between Sixth and Seventh Aves), 10019
More info
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Valentine's Day gift ideas

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Use our lists of the best stores by neighborhood and stop schlepping all over town.

Personalized, monogrammed and custom jewelry

Peep new modern styles, then make them your own.

Independent lingerie stores in NYC

Find out where to buy sweet or sexy undergarments to put some va va voom in your Valentine's Day.

The worst Valentine's Day gift ever?

I love you, here's a replica of my junk.

Romantic NYC bars with fireplaces for Valentine's Day

Black Mountain Wine House

  • Price band: 2/4
  • Critics choice
  1. 415 Union St, (at Hoyt St)
More info

Black Rabbit

  • Price band: 2/4
  1. 91 Greenpoint Ave, (between Franklin St and Manhattan Ave)
More info

Employees Only

  • Price band: 2/4
  • Critics choice
  1. 510 Hudson St, (between Christopher and W 10th Sts)
More info

Daddy’s

  • Price band: 1/4
  1. 437 Graham Ave, (at Frost St)
More info
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Free places to be romantic on Valentine's Day

Where to catch a sunset

Hit these spots for the best views.

Brooklyn Heights and Brooklyn Promenade

Take in postcard-ready views of lower Manhattan, the Brooklyn Bridge and the Statue of Liberty.

  1. Columbia Heights, (between Montague St and Middagh St)
More info

Citi Pond at Bryant Park

Well, free if you BYO skates. The winter wonderland view is free, though.

  1. Sixth Ave, (between 40th and 42nd Sts)
More info

The High Line

Take a stroll with your main squeeze.

  1. Washington St, (at Gansevoort St)
More info

Anne Militello, Light Cycles

  • Free

Strands of mirrored lights have been suspended from the roof of a ten-story glass pavilion.

  1. World Financial Center Winter Garden 200 Vesey St, at West St
  2. Until Sat Mar 30
More info

David Rubenstein Atrium (at Lincoln Center)

The Hot Sardines perform for free on Valentine's Day.

  1. Broadway, (between 62nd and 63rd Sts), 10023
More info

Tiffany & Co.

Go ring-peeping on Fifth Avenue.

  1. 727 Fifth Ave, (between 56th and 57th Sts)
More info

Leo Villareal, "BUCKYBALL"

Cuddle up on the zero-gravity chairs and take in the hypnotic spectacle.

  1. Madison Square Park E 23rd St to E 26th St, between Fifth and Madison Aves
  2. Thu Feb 28
More info

Things to do with your Valentine in New York

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Valentine's Day cards from independent stationery stores

Cursive

  • Price band: 2/4

Browse refined greeting cards from independent designers.

  1. 888 Broadway, inside ABC Carpet & Home, (at 19th St)
More info

Greenwich Letterpress

  • Price band: 2/4

This mint-walled boutique boasts many unique cards designed and printed in-house.

  1. 39 Christopher St, (between Seventh Ave South and Waverly Pl)
More info

Papel

  • Price band: 1/4

Buy simple neon-kissed greeting cards ($5) by Harland Brooklyn Card Co.

  1. 225 Court St, (between Baltic and Warren Sts)
More info

Paper Presentation

  • Price band: 1/4
  • Critics choice

Make your own card with supplies from this stationery emporium.

  1. 23 W 18th St, (between Fifth and Sixth Aves)
More info
See more of New York's best independent stationery stores

Get in the Valentine's Day mood

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  • This is a really nice variety of options. I love that you have the price ranges. For those holding out until the weekend, Winard Harper at the Metropolitan Room late night set is a good bet.

    BMB4JAZZ Sat Feb 9
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