The topic of death can be quite an uncomfortable one because it involves the unknown and marks the definitive conclusion of life, a concept undeniably daunting. But it is something that none of us can run away from. So, then how does one prepare for death? Brought to us by ArtsWok Collaborative and the Yishun Health & Wellness Kampung, the exhibition Both Sides, Now: tides 潮 steps in at this juncture to confront this question by encouraging and socialising end-of-life conversations and advance care planning.
In this exhibition, eight brave seniors challenge themselves to face the topic of departure, exploring what it means to “live well, and leave well”. Together with artist Salty Xi Jie Ng, they will be exhibiting works in the form of several mediums including film, art installations and conversations, which will uncover the taboos of death, end-of-life conversations and choices.
Immerse yourself in a poignant short film crafted by Michelle, drawing inspiration from her friend who finds solace by speaking to her late partner at bodies of water, reflecting on life and death through this unique perspective. Additionally, senior Devi Maniam will showcase a collection of photographs capturing the symbolic nature of food, representing love, family, and bonding. Lim Soh Joo's installation, titled Who can tell me?, offers an existential contemplation.
Another impactful piece is a heartfelt letter from a fellow caregiver, sharing the highs and lows of their journey – from burnout and helplessness to gratitude and satisfaction. You’ll also be able to find out more about the Single Seniors Club, initiated by Chia Yim Fong and Koh Tong Cheng, that serves as a support group for single seniors, providing companionship for those living alone. “I am a single senior. I live alone and come home to an empty house. That’s why we decided to form this club,” says founder Tong Cheng.
Alongside the exhibition, there will also be several programmes such as end-of-life conversations, readings, and exhibition tours by the seniors themselves.
To find out more about their exhibited artworks and programmes, visit their webpage here.
