Let us sex-plain

Your personal wingwoman, Jillian Anthony, answers all your questions about dating and doing it in New York

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We get it—being single in the city is tough, and the ways New Yorkers are getting it on these days can be surprising. But whatever your dating conundrum might be—from finding the best hook-up bars to trying out the best new dating sites and apps—our sex columnist is here to help. Read all of her responses below and submit your own sex or dating horror story.

Let us sex-plain

In the final Let Us Sex-plain, our columnist shares her best advice for sex and dating
Sex and dating

In the final Let Us Sex-plain, our columnist shares her best advice for sex and dating

My boyfriend still has dating apps
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My boyfriend still has dating apps

Can long-distance relationships work?
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Can long-distance relationships work?

How do I get my boyfriend to try sex toys with me?
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How do I get my boyfriend to try sex toys with me?

I want to take my boyfriend to sex parties
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I want to take my boyfriend to sex parties

My boyfriend and I have totally opposite schedules
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My boyfriend and I have totally opposite schedules

How do I tell my girlfriend I want to tie her up during sex?
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How do I tell my girlfriend I want to tie her up during sex?

Is everyone really having sex with their friends?
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Is everyone really having sex with their friends?

I found a used condom in my hookup’s bathroom
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I found a used condom in my hookup’s bathroom

How do I tell my girlfriend she has bad breath?
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How do I tell my girlfriend she has bad breath?

Why can I only have good sex with strangers?
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Why can I only have good sex with strangers?

How can I nicely ask people to leave after sex?
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How can I nicely ask people to leave after sex?

The divorced dad I’m dating wants me to meet his daughter
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The divorced dad I’m dating wants me to meet his daughter

I want to casually date a guy who used to be my serious boyfriend
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I want to casually date a guy who used to be my serious boyfriend

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