Let us sex-plain

Your personal wingwoman, Jillian Anthony, answers all your questions about dating and doing it in New York

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We get it—being single in the city is tough, and the ways New Yorkers are getting it on these days can be surprising. But whatever your dating conundrum might be—from finding the best hook-up bars to trying out the best new dating sites and apps—our sex columnist is here to help. Read all of her responses below and submit your own sex or dating horror story.

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Should I tell my roommate I have feelings for him?
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Should I tell my roommate I have feelings for him?

I found my boyfriend’s OKCupid profile
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I found my boyfriend’s OKCupid profile

My date got scared off by my big dick
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My date got scared off by my big dick

How long should I wait to date after my breakup?
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How long should I wait to date after my breakup?

Should I tell my ex’s girlfriend he’s a cheater?
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Should I tell my ex’s girlfriend he’s a cheater?

Is oral sex a requirement?
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Is oral sex a requirement?

I don’t know how many people I’ve slept with
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I don’t know how many people I’ve slept with

My girlfriend just wants to have sex when we hang out
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My girlfriend just wants to have sex when we hang out

My guy doesn’t last as long as I want him to
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My guy doesn’t last as long as I want him to

What does “dating” even mean?
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What does “dating” even mean?

Should I forgive her for cheating?
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Should I forgive her for cheating?

I’ve been dating a guy for six months but have no idea if he’s my boyfriend or not
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I’ve been dating a guy for six months but have no idea if he’s my boyfriend or not

How many partners is too many?
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How many partners is too many?

Is whiskey dick real?
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Is whiskey dick real?

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