Admit it: There are some icons of old New York that you haven’t visited, like the Staten Island Ferry or the Coney Island Cyclone. Remedy that by planning a summer date at four iconic New York City experiences. Romance abounds at these classic spots—plus, you and your date can call yourselves real New Yorkers after finally riding the Roosevelt Island Tram.
Go for a thrill ride at Coney Island
Score points with your sweetie by snagging a prize at one of the carnival games in Luna Park (1000 Surf Ave at 10th St; lunaparknyc.com) before an adrenaline-pumping ride on the 85-year-old Cyclone (834 Surf Ave at 8th St; lunaparknyc.com). Once your hearts have stopped racing, pick up the tab for two classic franks ($3) from Nathan’s Famous (1310 Surf Ave at Stillwell Ave; 718-946-2705, nathansfamous.com). Then order a drink ($5) from the Coney Island Brewing Company (3008 W 12th St at Surf Ave; coneyislandbrewingcompany.blogspot.com) before taking in the freaky performances at Sideshows by the Seashore (3006 W 12th St at Surf Ave; coneyisland.com; times vary; continuous admission $10), the area’s last remaining old-timey circus sideshow.
There’s a reason Mayor Bloomberg namechecked
this commuter barge as a good date spot: The 25-minute ride across New York Harbor affords the same gorgeous views as pricey tourist cruises, except you won’t have to shell out any cash at all. That doesn’t mean you should be a complete cheapskate—splurge on beers ($3–$6) from the onboard concession stand. (siferry.com)
See NYC from above on the Roosevelt Island Tram
If your date isn’t afraid of heights, take him or her for a ride on this aerial attraction—at its highest point, the bright-red cars rise 250 feet above the East River. During the four-minute trip, you’ll soak up views of the water and landmarks like the Queensboro Bridge. To make a day of it, pack a picnic and head to Lighthouse Park at Roosevelt Island’s northern end once you’ve landed. (Be sure to stroll along the promenade on the western edge for more scenic views of Manhattan.) (rioc.com). $2.25 per ride.
Snack and learn on Big Onion’s Multi-Ethnic Eating Tour
Eschew a brunch meeting and instead sample bites from a variety of Lower East Side establishments—including Di Palo’s Fine Foods, the Pickle Guys and Lucky King Bakery—on this walking tour. Along the way, you’ll soak up tidbits about the neighborhood’s culinary history, which should provide conversation fodder once the noshing is over. (888-606-9255, bigonion.com). Times vary; adults $23, seniors and students $18 (includes food samples).
If you’re looking for a fun date spot this Valentine’s Day, look no further: these great date spots in NYC are perfect for a romantic rendezvous. Dating is rough—trust us, we know. But Time Out has simplified the process (sort of) with our guide to the great dates in New York City, whether you’re meeting someone for a first date, trying to rekindle a long-term romance, or hate dating altogether. Plus, we’ve compiled a few tips to help make your next date go smoothly. If you’re still looking for a partner, we’ve got advice from Erika Christensen, a matchmaker who pairs up single ladies and gents on the subway. Or take a spin through our roundup of single New Yorkers to find someone that you can take on one of these great dates.—Edited by Amy Plitt Great date ideas in New York City Great first date ideas in NYC: Where to have a fun first date Don’t overthink things for an early date: If you need a first-date idea, use our guide to find the perfect, casual spot. Go on a virtual vacation at Bikini Bar Stepping into this Tribeca coffee shop is almost like walking into a hidden island oasis. Vintage surfboards are propped against the wall, a pineapple-themed chandelier hangs from the ceiling, and coffee cups adorned with palm trees add to the “we’re not in New York anymore” ambience. Swap vacation stories while sipping a cappuccino ($4) at the retro tiki bar; coffee, made from Counter Culture beans, is prepared by regional barista champion Danielle Glask
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