Test a potential partner’s cultural acumen by planning a summer date at an NYC museum. You’ll find outdoor art exhibits in Manhattan—the Met’s rooftop exhibit is a perennial favorite—along with free parties, interactive exhibits and more.
Daredevil daters can explore the museum’s current outdoor exhibit, “Tomás Saraceno on the Roof: Cloud City.” Constructed atop the Met’s Roof Garden, the installation features a series of connected pods that visitors can scale. Afterward, grab a cocktail ($12) from the adjacent bar and toast your sense of adventure, all while taking in picturesque views of the Manhattan skyline. (212-535-7710, metmuseum.org). Suggested admission $12–$25. Through Nov 4.
Explore this titillating institution’s collection of vintage pornography, antique sex toys and other ephemera, along with visiting exhibitions like “Universe of Desire” (through Nov 4), about getting down in the digital age. Before making a move on your date, take in some liquid courage at the adjacent Oralfix Bar, which serves cheeky cocktails such as the Fuck Me, a Maker’s Mark–and-ginger concoction ($13). (212-689-6337, museumofsex.com). $15.25–$17.50.
Indulge your respective pop-culture obsessions at this dynamic institution, whose collection includes vintage arcade consoles, props from films like Black Swan and The Exorcist, and toys inspired by series like Howdy Doody and The Monkees. Extend a particularly good date at one of the museum’s many film screenings: On June 8, catch the cult love story Harold and Maude. (718-777-6888, movingimage.us). $6–$12.
Awe your date with your cultural acumen without spending a dime at this uptown spot, which showcases work by borough artists. During its monthly First Fridays events, you can check out live music, films and other performances connected to current exhibits—all for the low price of absolutely nothing. (718-681-6000, bronxmuseum.org). First Friday of every month 6–10pm; free.
If you’re looking for a fun date spot this Valentine’s Day, look no further: these great date spots in NYC are perfect for a romantic rendezvous. Dating is rough—trust us, we know. But Time Out has simplified the process (sort of) with our guide to the great dates in New York City, whether you’re meeting someone for a first date, trying to rekindle a long-term romance, or hate dating altogether. Plus, we’ve compiled a few tips to help make your next date go smoothly. If you’re still looking for a partner, we’ve got advice from Erika Christensen, a matchmaker who pairs up single ladies and gents on the subway. Or take a spin through our roundup of single New Yorkers to find someone that you can take on one of these great dates.—Edited by Amy Plitt Great date ideas in New York City Great first date ideas in NYC: Where to have a fun first date Don’t overthink things for an early date: If you need a first-date idea, use our guide to find the perfect, casual spot. Go on a virtual vacation at Bikini Bar Stepping into this Tribeca coffee shop is almost like walking into a hidden island oasis. Vintage surfboards are propped against the wall, a pineapple-themed chandelier hangs from the ceiling, and coffee cups adorned with palm trees add to the “we’re not in New York anymore” ambience. Swap vacation stories while sipping a cappuccino ($4) at the retro tiki bar; coffee, made from Counter Culture beans, is prepared by regional barista champion Danielle Glask
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Here are dating tips that you need to know to help you survive a horrific date—and tips to protect yourself before one even happens. We’ve all been on terrible dates—and they suck. But with our dater’s handbook, you just might be able to prevent a bad date from happening. Our dating tips include apps to download that can help boost conversation, and services that send robocalls to get you out of a bad date. Plus, find out how to graciously decline another outing. Before Set up a Google Voice numberYes, you should definitely keep an open mind when you’re looking for the right person, but it’s equally important to protect yourself from under-the-radar stalker types. If you’d prefer not to receive random 2am texts, mask your cell number by registering for a free Google Voice account (google.com/voice). After linking it to your legit number, you can have the system forward both calls and texts, which you can respond to without giving away your real digits. (But if things go well, be sure to come clean as soon as possible.) Memorize your local Rejection Hotline numberThese days, striking up a conversation with an attractive stranger in a bar or other public locale sounds more like a meet-cute than real life. More often than we’d like, that good-looking someone is actually an overzealous, liquored-up weirdo. Should things get desperate, save yourself by doling out the number of the Rejection Hotline’s New York branch (212-660-2245). When the soon-to-be rebuffed party calls, th