OK, so you’re not inclined to set aside a dinner plate for your child’s make believe BFF, but you shouldn’t dismiss Bob entirely from existence (or lack thereof).
Though your little one’s conversations with his or her imaginary friend might make you slightly nervous about social and cognitive development, you shouldn’t stress. Dr. Marjorie Taylor, a psychologist and professor emerita at the University of Oregon, believes it’s all perfectly normal—even encouraged, according to Artsy.
Believe it or not, there are perks to these non-existent pals. Studies find children with made-up friends often have greater resilience, creativity and social skills. Perhaps you didn’t really give Bob the benefit of the doubt. After all, this extra heaping of imagination could be better in the long run. Think of it now: Your child is on track to being the next bestselling sci-fi author! (Hey, you never know.)
Dr. Taylor further suggested to Artsy that unobstructed playtime is the best way to let your little ones’ minds run free, so it looks like you’ll have to make room at the table when Bob decides to bring along a few more pals.
Looking for more fun for your little ones (and their imaginary BFFs)? Watch a classic from our roundup of the best kids’ movies, check out some fun winter activities or bring your crew (real and fake) to one of these indoor activities for kids.
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