City stories: Seo Hye-min
Photo: Seo Hye-min
Seo Hye-min (Bangi-dong, bride-to-be)
How did you know heās the one?I thought there would be some moment when I would know for sure, but it hasn't come yet. Perhaps, I'll always wonder if he'sĀ āthe one.ā Sometimes, I wonderĀ if I made the right choice, but noĀ matter how much I think about it, IĀ think I would make the same choiceĀ again in any lifetime. There's no oneĀ else in the world that understandsĀ me like he does and I never growĀ tired of him.
How did he propose?My husband had told me thatĀ we spent so much money on theĀ wedding that there wasnāt muchĀ left over to have a special proposalĀ event. I didnāt really expectĀ anything but when we went toĀ take our wedding photos in Jeju,Ā we stood in an open green fieldĀ and he suddenly got down on oneĀ knee with the ring and asked meĀ to marry him. Truth be told, weĀ had already picked out the ring so IĀ thought: āIs this man really going toĀ do the proposal like this?ā But nowĀ that I think back on it, itās a lovelyĀ memory. Not bad at all.
When are you getting married?On Saturday June 4th, at the officeĀ building of NCSOFT in Pangyo. IĀ first didn't like the idea of gettingĀ married at an office building, butĀ it's prettier than I thought.
Is it expensive to get married?Yes, quite a lot [but it saves a lot ofĀ money to get married at an officeĀ building]. If you go to a regularĀ wedding hall, you usually have toĀ pay at least 3 million won, but here,Ā the venue is free [since itās free forĀ the people who work there, likeĀ my husban