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12 New York City experiences that make amazing wedding gifts

Give the happy couple a gift they’ll never forget, like a helicopter ride over Manhattan or a cooking class for two

Annalise Mantz
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Annalise Mantz

We’ve all been there: Eager to purchase a memorable wedding gift for two of your dearest friends, but all that’s left on the registry is spatulas and towels. No thank you. Instead of scouring the best gift shops for some obscure kitchen accessory, buy the happy couple something truly memorable, like one of these New York City experiences. They’ll think of you while they soar over the skyline on a helicopter tour of NYC, whip up an elaborate meal in a couples cooking class or give a standing ovation to one of the best Broadway musicals. Trust us: The newlyweds won’t care that you didn’t get them the vacuum.

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New York City experiences that make amazing wedding gifts

  • Theater
  • price 4 of 4

That ceramic pie dish they listed on the registry? Boring. Orchestra seats to Natasha, Pierre and the Great Comet of 1812? Now we’re talking. If you know the bride and groom will appreciate some Tony-nominated theater, go ahead and spring for tickets to Dear Evan Hansen, The Book of Mormon, Come from Away or another one of NYC’s highly lauded Broadway shows.


Peanut butter and jelly, ketchup and fries, wine and cheese: Some things just work better together. The pros at Murray’s Cheese will give the newlyweds the lowdown on pairing reds, whites and dessert wines with everything from applewood-smoked cheddar to Yorkshire blue. Don’t worry: There will be plenty of tastings throughout the class, too.

  • Health and beauty
  • Spas
  • Lenox Hill

This Upper East Side spa became so well known for its treatments for pairs that it changed its name to The Couple’s Spa a few years ago. And after a whirlwind wedding and honeymoon, your just-married friends could probably use a chance to unwind. Gift them an hourlong aromatherapy massage in one of the spa’s five themed rooms for the ultimate relaxing afternoon.

  • Theater
  • Performing arts space
  • Upper West Side

Whether the newlyweds know their Wagner from their Verdi or not, any couple will enjoy a night at the opera. For one thing, it’s the perfect excuse to don your finest threads and sip a swanky cocktail. Just be mindful of the season: The American Ballet Theater takes up residence at Lincoln Center during the spring and summer, with the opera returning in the fall.

Sailboat Cruise with Wine, Cheese and Charcuterie
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9. Sailboat Cruise with Wine, Cheese and Charcuterie

All aboard! Direct your guests to the Shearwater for an afternoon of wine tastings while sailing the Hudson. Their host will pour tastings of four wines and pass around a charcuterie board while the captain steers the ship around the tip of Manhattan toward the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. Enthusiastic skippers can even help raise the sails, if they like.

Instant DJ Class at the Foxgrove
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10. Instant DJ Class at the Foxgrove

If your friends make a point of attending every big concert in town, they will definitely be interested in this introductory DJ class at the Foxgrove. In just one three-hour session, they’ll learn to use a controller and mix their very first set. Watch out, Aviici. 

  • Shopping
  • Grocery stores
  • Flatiron
  • price 2 of 4

Every month, Eataly hosts intimate four-course dinners for a few lucky patrons. The chef and sommelier will present each dish and wine pairing, explaining the significance and offering a few tasting notes. With themes ranging from traditional Sicilian cuisine to market-fresh seafood to summer on the Amalfi coast, it almost feels like a second honeymoon.

Private Ring-Making Session at Fitzgerald Jewelry
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12. Private Ring-Making Session at Fitzgerald Jewelry

That princess cut diamond sold in Kay Jewelers across the country just can’t compare to a personalized ring made specially for you. The lovebirds will get the chance to forge their own silver wedding bands in a private DIY class at Fitzgerald Jewelry in Williamsburg. Pro tip: It doubles as wonderful engagement gift!

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