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Parker and Nick

Each week, we take two New Yorkers who swear they’re totally undateable, and put our matchmaking skills to the test

By Will Gleason
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Photograph: Ann Sullivan

Why they’re single:
Parker: He hasn’t found anyone who can match his energy.
Nick: He doesn’t put himself out there enough.

Ideal date:
Parker: A fun activity like bowling or mini golf
Nick: Going to a bar for a few drinks, then doing something fun

THE DATE

First impression
Parker: “We met inside the VIP Mirror tent before the circus. I didn’t know if I’d be able to find him, but luckily he was the only other single guy there. I thought he was really cute.”
Nick: “He was talkative and had a nice smile. We had a great conversation and had similar taste in music and TV. We both watch Drag Race, so that was a talking point.”

Chemistry
Parker: “I think there could perhaps be romantic chemistry. We were laughing a lot, and I’m always attracted to someone who’s goofy and can have a fun time.”
Nick: 
“I’m not sure if there was a romantic spark, but I could see a friendship. We talked about the circus a lot. My grandpa was actually a ringleader, so that was funny.”

Awkward Moment
Parker: “Before the show, a psychic was going around, and, at one point, she grabbed my hand and was like, ‘I see true love in your future!’ Then a mime started making big hearts.”
Nick: “I was brought up onstage by a group of clowns during the show, which was an intereseting date experience. They had me pretend to be on a roller coaster. I nailed it.”

Afterward
Parker: “When the show was over, we walked around Lincoln Center and chatted for a couple minutes. We exchanged numbers and hugged a few times. I got two good hugs in.”
Nick: “We took photos with some of the circus props and then went outside and exchanged numbers. I would definitely grab another drink with him but just as friends.”

Verdict
Parker: ♥♥ “He seemed pretty put together and chill, and he’s a good-looking guy. There was a good balance of being silly and being able to talk and get to know each other.”
Nick: ♥♥♥ “He was a really good guy, just not the guy for me. There was nothing wrong with him—I just don’t think we were a match. But I’d go get a drink with him again!”

Our daters went to the Big Apple Circus (60 Lincoln Center Plaza, 212-257-2330)

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Looking for a cheap date idea?

Desert Island
Photograph: Courtesy Desert Island

Graphic Love Stories

Nerd is the new cool and nothing says nerdtastic like a good comic book. Geeky sweethearts, make your way to Williamsburg's quaint comic book store, Desert IslandDiscover each other's favorites or grab a copy of Smoke Signal, the shop's free weekly anthology.

Sets you back: FREE

Photograph: Jakob N. Layman

Laughs and views

Start out an evening in LIC by sauntering through Gantry Plaza State Park, a waterfront respite that boasts a beautiful midtown-Manhattan backdrop. Next, head to double-tiered comedy venue The Creek and the Cave, which welcomes stand-ups (including occasional surprise bigwigs like Jerry Seinfeld), improv troupes and variety shows every night of the week, often for nada. Prove that you’re not that much of a Costanza by springing for some fish and pork tacos ($4–$6). 

Sets you back: $12–$15

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Pete's Candy Store, live music venue, Williamsburg, Brooklyn

Free gigs and high-end cocktails

Wait until you’ve been out a few times and you’re ready to squeeze in nice and close before hitting the teeny back room of Pete’s Candy Store, which hosts no-cover shows by indie artists and acoustic troubadours every night of the week. Afterward, head around the corner to The Shanty, a naked brick-and-concrete bar attached to the New York Distilling Company that offers some pretty sweet happy hour specials.

Sets you back: $16–$24

Syndicated, dine-in movie theater
Photograph: Courtesy Michael Tulipan

Dinner and a movie

Movie theaters Independent East Williamsburg

This overrated date night comes in handy, especially when the cost is dirt cheap. Unlike other movie theaters, Syndicated let’s you wine and dine while you watch a classic flick. Get this: movie tickets are $7 apiece. And since the movie is so affordable, you can schmooze your date by splurging on some gourmet popcorn from the concession stand.

Sets you back: $7-$25

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Hot-and-heavy at Alameda’s happy hour

Restaurants American Greenpoint

This Greenpoint bar knows how to set the mood with rustic wooden tables and romantic lighting without making you go, y’know, broke. Hell, you and your date can get a buzz and some grub for 11 or 12 bucks! You can’t go wrong with a classic beer and burger deal or something a little fancier like boquerones and Prosecco.

Sets you back: $11–$12

Photograph: Courtesy Caroline Voagen Nels

Get your groove on at midnight

Bars Pubs Park Slope

No matter how tight your budget, you can still get loose on the dance floor at Park Slope's Union Hall. Free dance parties go down most Saturday nights, featuring DJs spinning old-school hip-hop crowd pleasers and heavy-hitters at midnight. Check out the drink specials and definitely split a basket of fries ($6) or an order of deviled eggs ($5)—served until midnight —before you hit the dance floor.

Sets you back: $18

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Four & Twenty Blackbirds
Photograph: Lizz Kuehl

Dessert and mind-blowing nerdery

It’s been scientifically proven that nothing in the known universe is more romantic than pie. At Gowanus go-to Four & Twenty Blackbirds, two slices of shop faves like salted apple caramel or grapefruit custard will run you $11.50. (Arrive early in the evening, as they tend to sell out.) Then, fill your head with, you know, actual scientifically proven knowledge at the Bell House’s monthly Secret Science Club event, where experts lecture on crazy-cool theories for free. Tip: Bring someone geeky to this, lest you seem…like a total geek.

Sets you back: $11.50

Van Cortlandt House Museum
Photograph: Francis Smith

Nature and history in the Bronx

Seeing an outdoorsy guy or gal but don’t have the gas money to drive upstate? Fortunately, there’s ample natural beauty to explore in Van Cortlandt Park. The secluded banks of Van Cortlandt Lake (in the southwest region) are begging for a quiet but passionate make-out session. Post-smooching, stop by the Van Cortlandt House Museum ($5), just west of the lake. Its 1740s stone edifice hosted George Washington twice in the midst of the Revolutionary War, and the current interior features re-creations of furnishings favored by the abode’s namesake, the rich merchant and mayor Jacobus Van Cortlandt.

Sets you back: $10

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A cinematic shrine and plenty of Guinness

Secure film-buff status by bringing your date to the Museum of the Moving Image on a Friday evening (4–8pm), when the admission fee is waived. Make sure to fool around at the permanent collection’s sound-editing, dubbing and stop-motion-animation stations before leaving. Afterward, drink your fill at the charming Irish joint Quays Pub (45-02 30th Ave at 45th St, Astoria, Queens; 718-204-8435) with rounds of Guinness ($5 to $6), poured just as they should be: in two steps, so that a perfect head peeks over the rim.

Sets you back: $22

Experimental theater and suds

Take that cute starving artist to The Chocolate Factory, which hosts cheap ($15 to $20) and free avant-garde theater, dance and performance art. If you opt for a gratis show, treat yourself to libations at the roomy craft-brew haven Alewife Queens and have a deep conversation about the meaning of the work you witnessed. Get more bang for your buck by splitting a growler of the 7.2 percent ABV Beerly Legal Saison, brewed specially for the owners by Captain Lawrence.

Sets you back: $30–$50

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