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How to meet new people as we get older

As Rob Thomas once said, we don’t wanna be lonely no more

Mingli Seet
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Mingli Seet
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Okay so, time's ticking and we're not exactly getting any younger. We find ourselves scrolling through our phones, trying to round up some buddies to hang with, but it perpetually seems like no one's free. And then it hits us... have we become lonely? (Sigh) 

If this nagging feeling of needing more company is getting to you, worry no more! We've got your back with some practical tips to get out there and increase your chances of meeting new people. While it may not be a foolproof plan, it's definitely better than staying cooped up at home all day where the chances of socialising are pretty much zero. So come on, it’s time to step out and get the social ball rolling!

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Sign up for a class

Remember when we were in school and it seemed like everyday was a social buffet? I do. And now that we are older, school is somewhat out of the question. But this doesn’t mean you can’t take up a class somewhere. Why not attend an exercise class to try out a new sport like pilates, rhythm cycling, trampoline classes, or just simply hit the gym? However if you’re not one to meet someone new while you’re drenched in sweat, then consider signing up for a workshop where people gather to make some creative mess. 

Attend a music gig

Immerse yourself in the company of like-minded music enthusiasts at electrifying concerts and vibrant festivals. Alternatively, if you're looking for a more laid-back and spontaneous vibe, unwind your evenings at intimate live music venues, where independent artists take the stage. With a relaxed atmosphere and plenty of room for conversation starters, these venues are perfect for connecting with fellow music lovers.

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Put yourself out there on social media

Ok, so hear us out. Yes, social media may sound like a daunting place to meet someone new, but with some savvy filtering and an open mind, it can actually be a great place to connect with others. If you're ready to give your account a fresh makeover and inject some new life into it, why not make Singapore your backdrop and start capturing moments worth sharing? Let your creativity flow and you’ll never know whose eye you’ll catch with those images in the digital realm.

Dine out

Food is a universal love and a basic necessity. So, what better place to meet people than at eateries? Stop ordering take-ins, put on a fresh outfit and explore the latest restaurants, bars and cafés in town. If you prefer a more intimate and relaxed setting, then venture into the realm of secret night bars for a unique and intriguing experience. 

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Work from… outside!

Switch up the work-from-home routine and work from outside instead! There are several work-friendly cafés with great Wi-Fi and a conducive environment. Remember, as long as you’re not at home, the chances of actually crossing paths with people increases even if it’s just by one percent. So, sip on a latte, and let the serendipity of chance encounters add a touch of excitement to your workday.

Get your steps in and take a walk outdoors

Sure, Korean dramas may be fictional, but here's the thing – taking a break and going for a leisure walk at the park is not only good for your health but also an opportunity to immerse yourself in a community of like-minded individuals who appreciate the same winding-down techniques. So, step away from the screen, embrace the beauty of nature, and connect with others who share your desire for relaxation and rejuvenation. And dog lovers, here’s your chance to bring along your pooch to the dog park and meet other fellow dog lovers/owners.

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Volunteer for a good cause

Engaging with the community and dedicating your time to volunteering for a cause is a simple yet effective way to expand your social circle. Not only do you contribute back to society, but you also have the opportunity to forge meaningful connections with like-minded individuals who share your values and genuine compassion. By getting involved, you not only make a positive impact but also cultivate friendships that are rooted in shared experiences and heartfelt aspirations.  And, of course, naturally, please ensure that your contributions are genuinely from the heart! 

Go solo travelling

Thanks to the fact that Singapore's passport is ranked second best globally, exploring various corners of the world has become a breeze. Embarking on solo travel adventures opens up a world of opportunities and is one of the most exciting ways to meet new and interesting people and create unforgettable connections. As you step out of your comfort zone and explore unfamiliar territories, you'll find yourself surrounded by fellow travellers and locals who share a similar spirit of adventure. From striking up conversations in hostels to joining group tours and engaging in local activities, solo travel provides the perfect platform to forge meaningful friendships with individuals from diverse backgrounds and cultures. Embrace the freedom of solo exploration, and let the journey lead you to incredible encounters and lifelong friendships that transcend borders.

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