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Photograph: Southern Star EntertainmentThe Secret Life of Us cast at the start of season two. Clockwise from centre: Sibylla Budd; Claudia Karvan; Samuel Johnson; Damian de Montemas; Spencer McLaren; Abi Tucker; Joel Edgerton; Deborah Mailman; David Treddinnick

How to do St Kilda like you’re in The Secret Life of Us

Relive the seminal 20-somethings series more than 20 years later by taking a walk in the footsteps of Alex, Evan, Kelly and the gang

Nick Dent
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Nick Dent
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“Starting to feel my head in your space, starting to lose track of the weekdays…” 

The Secret Life of Us was Australian commercial TV’s coming of age. This sophisticated soap about the emotional lives of nine bright young things was the first to realistically depict youthful inner-city life in Melbourne. Funny and insightful even as it casually broke all the commercial TV rules about language, drugs and sex, it showed what it was really like to share an apartment while trying to find love, and yourself, in the brand new millennium.    

Debuting in July 2001, the series launched an astonishing pool of talent. Former child star Claudia Karvan found her groove as young doctor Alex, paving the way for her success in Love My Way and beyond. Playing her housemate Evan, an aspiring novelist, Samuel Johnson captivated the nation with his honey-and-gravel baritone, which he parlayed into a stellar run as a voiceover artist (he would later win two Logies for his portrayal of Molly Meldrum). 

It was only 20 years ago that First Nations actors were rare on mainstream TV, and Deborah Mailman’s beguiling turn as their lovelorn housemate Kelly was groundbreaking as well as brilliant. Then there was Joel Edgerton, on the sidelines at first as sensitive tradie Will, whose increasingly powerful presence presaged his future success in Hollywood as an actor, writer and director.   

The series burned bright for three years and won a clutch of awards, but its shining success opened doors for the cast that few could resist walking through. They left: first Edgerton, then most of the regular cast, then the regular cast’s replacement cast. When season four presented viewers with an almost entirely new line-up of characters, ratings were so dismal Ten pulled the show after just two episodes had screened. 

You can now rewatch all four seasons on Netflix, Amazon Prime and 10Play, but The Secret Life of Us has always been with us: it haunts our memories every time we walk down the Esplanade, skirt Luna Park, drop into the Espy or glimpse the Palais Theatre. Here’s Time Out’s guide to St Kilda through the lens of one of Australian TV’s best shows.

  • Things to do
  • St Kilda West

Recognisable from its looming Canary Island palm trees, Catani Gardens was built in 1910 and named after Italian-born landscape architect Carlo Catani. Providing access to the beach, the Gardens feature in many SLOU episodes as the location of soccer games or transitional scenes. Kelly (Deborah Mailman) memorably has a meet-cute with a merchant banker here, but then botches her picnic date with him by pretending to be deep and mysterious. 

Live the Secret life: Come here for a romantic picnic, a soccer game, or heal your soul at the rotunda with the St Kilda Laughter Club – just as Christian (Michael Dorman) does in episode 11 of season two, laughing his head off with strangers.  

A rooftop with bay views
Photograph: Graham Denholm

A rooftop with bay views

The rooftop of the gang’s Art Deco apartment overlooked the Palais Theatre and Port Phillip Bay, but they were always too taken up drinking Crown Lager and discussing their romantic dilemmas to notice the amazing vista. In the second episode, Alex (Claudia Karvan) has a cataclysmic tryst with her best friend Gabby’s fiancé, Jason (Damian de Montemas), up here while Kelly, hanging out her laundry, tries not to notice. 

Live the Secret life: Sink a few with some mates with a backdrop of Port Phillip Bay at Captain Baxter’s rooftop or the balcony at Ellora

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St Kilda Lawn Bowls Club
  • Sport and fitness
  • St Kilda

In season two, after Evan meets Christian over a game of lawn bowls, he invites him home as a potential tenant for Will’s old room. The 150-year-old St Kilda Bowls Club makes several appearances on the show and is rightly attributed with kickstarting the resurgence of lawn bowls as a hip social gathering for young folk across Australia. 

Live the Secret life: Lawn Bowls makes for a great day out with some mates – it’s easy to learn and you can lob a ball with one hand and hold a beer in the other. Another historic club in the area is the Middle Park Bowls Club.

Local bars
Photograph: Eugene Hyland

Local bars

One of the refreshing things about the show was its realism when it came to young people’s social habits, including liking a drink or three. Their regular hang was of course Fu Bar, owned by Simon (David Treddinick), the gay bartender with a scandalously hetero past. It’s after closing time at Fu Bar that Simon and Richie (Spencer McLaren) get it on, inducing Richie to have second thoughts about his sexuality and his relationship with Miranda (Abi Tucker). 

Live the Secret life: There’s no Fu Bar and never was, but there are plenty of other great options around St Kilda for a night on the tiles. Freddie Wimpoles is like Fu Bar with a bigger budget; Flour Child is a cocktail bar and pizzeria with a website that channels the SLOU opening credits; and Misery Guts is the Bill Murray-loving bar that does cocktails and toasties big enough to satisfy a Will-sized hunger.

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St Kilda Sea Baths
  • Things to do
  • St Kilda

Alex always starts her day with some freestyle, and usually with her longtime bestie Gabrielle (Sibylla Budd) keeping up with her stroke for stroke. Put it down to the endorphins that Alex chooses a moment in the shallow end to apologise to Gabby for sleeping with Jason. 

Live the Secret Life: The swimming sequences may not have always been filmed there but the original 1931 St Kilda Sea Baths are quite a treat to visit. They were rebuilt in the 1990s and now comprise restaurants, function rooms, gym and a day spa. Right on the beach, they’re a must visit, and if you feel like doing some laps, the 25m seawater pool is therapeutic no matter how much guilt you happen to be carrying.

Luna Park
  • Kids
  • Play spaces
  • St Kilda

While the apartment block used for the show's exteriors was actually down the other end of Acland Street, the fictional SLOU address was close by this famous amusement park, and characters frequently pause in front of the gaping mouth of the entrance way. The Evan-and-Alex storyline heats up at Luna Park when they get cosy in the photobooth and take, as Evan says: "the most incredible photo I’ve ever seen". Spinning-wheel thrill ride the Enterprise features in the show’s credits, symbolising the roundabouts of 20-something life.

Live the Secret life: Luna Park opened in 1912, and its Scenic Railway is believed to be the second oldest roller coaster in the world – it’s definitely worth a look both for nostalgia value (or if you have kids in tow). 

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  • Bars
  • Pubs
  • St Kilda

The Esplanade Hotel is where the gang hang out when they’re not at Fu Bar, although the seminal pub rock venue attracts them more for its pool tables than its bandrooms. Evan stalks his ex Carmen (Catherine McClements) here while she’s shooting pool, hoping to rekindle the flame after having his heart broken.   

Live the Secret life: The Espy was an icon back in 2001 and it’s an icon now. In addition to live bands in the Gershwin Room there are open mic nights and a podcast studio (where's the Samuel Johnson-hosted podcast for that matter?) 

Cafés and walks
Photograph: Visit Victoria

Cafés and walks

Without café scenes, nothing would ever happen on The Secret Life of Us. Alex and Gabby are endlessly discussing their love lives over flat whites, and in one hilarious tête-a-tête the unstoppably chatty Gabby announces her intention to go on a silent meditation retreat (as if). In season one, Will ill-advisedly lends his self-centred ex Leah (Tasma Walton) his life savings to open her own café.  

Live the Secret life: Make like the moody cast and have a coffee at the Vineyard Restaurant and follow it up with a walk along Marina Reserve or along St Kilda Pier. You might even make it all the way up to the white tower at Point Ormond Lookout – where Alex memorably ends season one with no job, no boyfriend and potentially homeless. That’s life.

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