Sex & Dating
Your ultimate guide to sex and dating in New York City
Let Us Sex-plain: When should I tell people I have herpes?
Your personal wingwoman answers all your questions about dating and doing it in New York
Meet the Undateables: Amelia and Matt
Each week, we take two New Yorkers who swear they're undateable, and put our matchmaking skills to the test
The best strip clubs in NYC
NYC has plenty of places where you can enjoy a lap dance or throw a bachelor party
The best sex shops in NYC
Spice up your sex life with the help of the city's top erotica purveyors at one of these shops
The 13 best first-date ideas for New Yorkers
Check out our picks of the perfect fun (or unusual!) spots in NYC
Essential dating spots
The best first-date restaurants and bars in NYC
Wow a date with conversation-starting cocktails or rooftop views at these romantic first-date spots
The most romantic bars in NYC
Take a date to one of these crazy, sexy, cool bars for a romantic night out
The 10 best hookup bars in NYC
Hooking up is hard to do—unless you know where to go.
100 pickup spots
Whether you want to find a date, a one night stand or something deeper, here are 100 tried-and-tested pickup spots recommended by real New Yorkers.
More dating ideas
Best date ideas in NYC
You'll have no trouble wooing your crush with our guide to NYC's best date ideas and romantic spots
Best first-date ideas
Looking for the best first-date ideas? Check out our picks of the perfect fun (or unusual!) spots in NYC.
Best offbeat date ideas
If you hate the traditional trappings of dating, try one of these fun, casual date ideas.
Best breakup spots
You’ve decided to dump your significant other in public (you bastard!). Here's where to get it over with.
Get in the mood
50 sexiest songs ever made
From the hottest turn-ons to the sweetest soundtracks, these are the 50 sexiest songs on the planet, according to us.
The 45 sexiest album covers of all time
Flip through the steamiest, most seductive record sleeves in music.
The 10 best sex scenes in New York movies
Weird, wild and impossibly verbal, these are the best sex scenes in movies about New York.
Quiz: What kind of New York lover are you?
Player or pussycat? Take our saucy quiz and discover your sex style.